People have been kind sharing their sand toys everyday when we go to the park. I felt bad, so I finally bought some of our own. One mom told me, since they can only have 1 child they want them to share. My boys were also sharing their sand toys. Except the kids they let use it, decided they would throw the sand at people's heads. I must've been the only sane adult. I yelled at them and took back our sand toys.
A few minutes later the two bad kids are back throwing stones at the other kids. I yelled at them again. This time it got their mom's attention, they hid and she took them home. One parent understood English and said "I criticized my child." Okay, but I didn't see his kid doing anything. When I told my in-laws. They said I should leave the park. I guess they mean, don't say anything to them and leave. Great, reward the bullies.
I knew I would not get back in time to pick up the boys from school, so I made sure it was fine for the in-laws to pick them up(even though they never let me pick them up by myself). My mother-in-law said one of the other woman commented that when I take the kids to the park I just sit there, I don't talk. She told them I don't speak Chinese. Besides why do I need to talk to a bunch of old nosy busy bodies?
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